Couples’ Work
Most couples don’t struggle because they lack love or commitment. They struggle because they get caught in patterns that quietly erode trust, desire, and connection over time. Feelings of rejection, blame, loneliness, resentment, and inadequacy accumulate—forming the blocks of a wall that is built gradually over time.
These dynamics don’t live only in the mind. They live in the body, in tone, timing, and nervous system responses that shape how partners approach, protect, or withdraw from one another.
My work with couples is grounded in the belief that real change happens when both partners take responsibility for how they impact one another—not through equal blame, but through mutual accountability. From this grounded, adult relational stance, couples can interrupt entrenched patterns, tell the truth with care, and rebuild intimacy that is honest, embodied, and sustainable.
This work is best suited for couples who are willing to look at their own contributions to relational patterns, rather than seeking validation or blame. It requires honesty, curiosity, and a shared commitment to growth.
This work is an invitation to return to each other, and yourselves, with more presence, acceptance, compassion, and relational skill.Â
Ways to Work Together
Coaching
Ongoing relational work for couples who want to understand their patterns, repair trust, and deepen emotional and physical intimacy over time. Coaching offers a steady, attuned space to slow things down and build new ways of relating that are grounded, embodied, and sustainable.
Intensives
A concentrated, in-person experience for couples at a threshold. Intensives create the time and containment needed to address entrenched dynamics, heal ruptures, and reorient the relationship at its roots. This personalized work is immersive, focused, and designed for meaningful change.
